http://diary.blog.yam.com/marlll brower zh-tw blog.yam.com All Rights Reserved 父親為我和哥哥都設計好了人生軌道。他希望我畢業後就近找個工作然後嫁個公務員安安穩穩地過日子。但我卻偏偏違背了他的意思，在外面打工幾年都未回家，也沒有消息。父親急得像熱鍋上的螞蟻，到處打聽我的消息，我回家後他心裡的一塊石頭落了地，表面上卻裝作冷冰冰的樣子，對我不冷不熱，暗地裡又讓母親多給我做些好吃的。談男友時父親也不同意，因為男友家在湖北離我家很遠且家境不太好，但我執意。在跟父親爭吵過很多次後，父親不再堅持，但心裡一直耿耿於懷。我結婚的時候，父母親並沒有參加婚禮。到我生女兒的時候，父親才讓母親過來陪我，母親來我家時受到了全家人熱情的款待，婆婆待人熱情而且為人謙和，她們在一起有很多共同語言，母親看到我在婆家受到了悉心的照顧，再加上家裡情況慢慢好起來，回去跟父親一說，父親才慢慢釋懷。卻反复叮囑我不要喝生水，父親說他十幾歲到湖北來討生活的時候，水里曾有很多血吸蟲，有不少人喝了有血吸蟲的水後死於非命，父親對湖北的印像還停留在幾十年前。父親還好笑的問我，“你們湖北有牛肉吃嗎？要沒有的話從家裡帶些過去。”母親在一旁聽了，揶揄父親說，“就只有我們湖南才有牛肉，其他地方都沒有。”
或許是因為我一直很獨立的緣故，成家後父親對我的話都言聽計從，每次打電話回去的時候，父親總是唯唯諾諾，我說您身體不好，要多注意休息不要打牌。他孩子氣地說好你媽老跟我嘮叨你幫我說說她，我聽了暗暗好笑，想不到年齡大了卻越來越返樸歸真了ITX Motherboards Mini ITX Computer ITX Cases,Mini ITX Motherboards。 ]]> http://diary.blog.yam.com/marlll/article/6137163 Fri, 03 Oct 2008 14:43:37 +0800 長大後，父親便對我們異常嚴格起來。記憶中，父親是一個專制、霸道的嚴父。總是板著臉孔說，不准這樣，不准那樣。夾菜要夾靠近自己這邊的，站要有站相，坐要有坐姿，來客人了要有禮貌……從小到大我都酷愛讀書，武俠，言情小說是我的最愛。哪個同學有課外書，總要想方設法借來。開始時明目張膽的看，被父親制止後轉入地下活動，等父親睡覺了再開燈看，因為光線比較大有幾次被起夜的父親發現了。後來為了不被他發現，我偷偷點煤油燈來看，因為煤油燈的光比較小，父親不易察覺，偶爾還躲在被窩裡藉著手電筒微弱的光線看。我的眼睛近視主要就是那時不良的閱讀習慣造成的。有時上茅廁的時候也拿本書看，一蹲就是半個小時，一則愛書成癖，二則打發時間。但父親也很精明，他看到我蹲的時間過長就知道我又在看小說了。有幾次看書被父親抓個正著，書沒收了。但每次我都能僥倖的在櫃頂上，或櫃子的衣服中找到。記得有一次，我把同學的眼鏡打破了，同學讓我賠錢，我顫顫嘌噤的告訴父親，原以為他會狠狠的罵我一頓，還好他只是說了幾句就算了。
父親不允許我帶朋友回家，有好幾次放學同學順路到我家，等同學走後父親總是責怪我不該帶同學來玩。究其原因，我想可能是因為家境貧窮，父親覺得難以招待吧！但父親卻從不和我講道理，所以我總愛和他抬槓、頂嘴，但每次都說不過他，氣得直掉眼淚，後來我跟老公開玩笑說，我小時候是三天一小哭，六天一大哭，老公就調侃說我的眼淚夠裝一水缸。讀初三的時候，中途輟學的一個女同學外出打工回來了，邀我放暑假時和她一起去長沙打工，父親不答應。為了氣氣他，我故意收拾好東西躲在後山上看著他焦急地找我，看差不多了再偷偷地跑回家。 Chinese Pin Yin Study Chinese Chinese Course Learn Mandarin ]]> http://diary.blog.yam.com/marlll/article/6137159 Fri, 03 Oct 2008 14:42:54 +0800 My strawberry flavor is purple, pink is the daughter of the apple. Sky blue, no slightest clouds, the sun shines on us, the warm..
Leisurely, comfortable, quiet, I have been under the sun like this feeling..
Many years ago, I often a person, later, more than a Renpei me, I was a person eating ice cream, look at his side. I know that it is not because he did not love, because the ice cream that he wants to save money. We love the ice cream inside warming. A year later, I married this ice cream can I eat the.
Daughter eat very quiet, very focused. This time, she is all the world before this apple ice cream. I do not like her as seriously, while eating, while four eyes the world's greatest experiences, now to see tall buildings, while the Gequn see flapping in the wind, and even pegged to a square Jianla Ji is the grandmother a long time.
Adults heart will always be spent, in the muddy going, no children so crystal clear waters. Alas! I sigh a sigh, when I can so that their souls rest on a strawberry ice cream on » In space, I occasionally see good friend saying: "He asked in Shenzhen working for 20 years, after the death of epitaph to write what others answered that I finally solved the housing problem." Good laugh, very classic, of course, Also have bitter taste.
Meng Tingwei Piaolai a distant suddenly the song, she was the favorite song, because her songs fresh, pure, natural. However, the number of days, how long has she had heard the song. . . . . . . "Winter rain to Taipei to look at, do not cry in the foreign land. Taipei to look at the winter rain, the dream is the only baggage. Gently awakened by events of the past do not come back, when I had never been away from. If the words of the bottom of my heart to meet, no I Gengdong than you 。。。。。。 day or days, rain or rain, I no longer familiar with the city. You or you, I or me, just a little more than memories. "
Looking back, when the ice cream can I eat it , the side and others are now talking about the stock Change. the warm sun, carefree our hearts.
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